You have such a great attitude. I'm sorry to hear about the break up.

These photos are lovely and so are you.

Oh Olivia, I know that you are going to be more than fine! It is clear that you and Tyler were each other's best friends, but I can also tell that you have lots of other people in your life that you are vey close to. You are loved all around!!!

And I don't know how you do it, but every picture of you is gorgeous!! xoxo

Oh Olivia, how sad you must be feeling! If anything, his recent absence was only a test to prove that you WILL be just fine. You're a strong, independent woman and you CAN be on your own.

olivia... i don't know any details (obviously) but i do know that no matter what position you take in a breakup--the one who initiates or the one who does not--they suck. they suck so much. i am sooo sorry you're going through that right now. remember to stay in the present moment!

I am so sorry. I broke up with my boyfriend last Friday. He lives in Baltimore now and I'm here in Charleston and the distance was too much. But here's what everyone told me:
youre young, youre beautiful, and you have your whole life ahead of you!

if you lean on your friends and wonderful family, you will fine!
promise!

You handle things with such grace and class~ that ability (plus the support of your wonderful friends and family) will be more than enough to help you begin this new adventure.

Oh, Olivia, I'm so sorry!

I'm so sorry to hear about this. You've got a hard road ahead of you, but it sounds like you are surrounded by great people, which will help. I'm thinking of both you and Tyler.

You are so classy. I mean, so many people would make subtle hints on their Twitters and blogs about how cruel life/a "certain someone" is, etc. With your awesome family and friends around, I know you'll be doing all sorts of fun things to stay busy or whatever. Plus, Thanksgiving and Christmas are coming up - loads of family time! At least that's how I think of them...and obnoxious amounts of great food :)

You are so poised and lovely, so I know you'll get through this with absolute grace. Thoughts are with you!

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup, Olivia. I'm glad you are feeling okay, and are able to be optimistic about the future. You are an amazing woman and you're destined for great things. Tyler was lucky to have you while he did, and we feel the same about you here. We're lucky to have you!
xo meg

Aaaaahh, gorgeous girl, gorgeous scenery. So sorry to hear about your breakup. Wishing you nothing but the best.

Merci!
Shannan

Olivia! I am so sorry! I hope you are doing okay - you sound so strong and classy! Wishing you comfort and strength during this time! xo

Ditto Alex's comment. :) You are so graceful even in the face of hardship. Best of luck, sweet girl!

You are absolutely lovely and wise beyond your years. Thinking of you today.

My heart goes out to you, girl! Be kind and indulgent to yourself. Thinking of you, most definitely.

Olivia, I admire your grace and clarity during what must be a difficult time. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.

Breakups are hard, no matter what, but I've realized that it's sometimes in these periods of transition that we truly grow as a person and learn more about who we are. I'm wishing you all the best as you navigate this change. xo

You are so lovely. I couldn't have put The Mighty R&R comment any better. Be kind to yourself, surround yourself with the beautiful people in your life and keep being amazing.
xoxo

Oh how sad...
I always hated break-ups. But like most have said, you are so young, and so beautiful. You have the whole world ahead of you.
10 years from now, you will look at this trial and be thankful for it. You will grow from it.
I wish you the best, and a speedy recovery. (Cause we all know it takes time to recover from such a heartbreak)

Ohh girl. All my love and best wishes.
There are so many things you can learn about yourself and others who love you at this very point right now.

Seriously- lots of love from Australia! x

awww, sweetie... i know EXACTLY what u r going thru... i broke up w/mine in jan. after almost 5 years....YES, u will be fine... u are much younger than I am, and u will find someone...u have so much to offer.

btw, that row of houses along the boardwalk- very familiar.. i remember we walked by that pink and lavender one...2 moons ago..

Sigh...I'm so sorry, Olivia! Thinking of you :(

Same as everyone else said...you're a classy and strong lady and you will be fine :)

Indulge yourself for awhile (chocolate, old movies, and pedicures do it for me) and move on with all the strength and grace you show in your blog!

Lost of love,

Lauren

I dated a guy in college for 3 years and just when we were about to graduate, I thought he was going to propose...but instead he broke up with me. I thought I was going to suffocate and die. So, I went on with my summer, and was a bridesmaid in 3 of my closest friends' weddings, broken hearted.
You are a strong, beautiful, and successful woman. You WILL be ok. Maybe you don't feel like it today, but you will.

BEAUTIFUL pictures! I admire your positive outlook but am sorry to hear about the break up. <333

This must have been an incredibly hard post to write. You are so positive and right - you will most definitely be fine. Sometimes it is just hard in the interim. So glad you seem to have the most loving of families and friends all around you. Sending many happy thoughts your way.

you'll definitely be fine. it says a lot of wonderful things about you in the way you are tactful and respectful about the situation. you seem like a lovely and beautiful person. chin up. :)

you are such a strong, classy woman and have a lovely support system of your family surrounding you. you have your whole life ahead of you and you will be fine!

sending you a hug beautiful.

I sensed that was the case when you mentioned things didn't go as planned and then for two posts, you never showed a photo of him.
I hope the healing comes quickly!

inspired by your graceful attitude & sending you lots and lots of positive thoughts :)

Oh no...I'm so sad to hear about your break up, but it's good that you have a positive outlook on the whole thing. Take this time to enjoy family and friends, and although it may seem scary, you get a chance to rediscover who you are as an individual...and that is exciting.

Keep your head up little lady

*hugs*

I'm sending you another hug. I have been reading your blog for a while for your wonderful stories and pictures, and I hope you're doing okay.

It is always sad to hear of a relationship ending, but the future will be beautiful, as you always are in your posts! I hope you have a fantastic weekend, with lots of friends and brunch!

Wow, you are so strong and an inspiration to women who are going through similar situations. You always have such grace and class, and your independence shows in every post you write. I'm sorry to hear about the break-up, but I'm sure that your amazing support system, and the joy you find in everyday life, will make this an easier transition.

Wow, you've recieved alot of comments. People definately have your back. You have many blessings!! I wish you lots of luck and love!!

I have always admired what a wonderful beautiful life you seem to lead...because of the people you surround yourself with and the beauty you seem to see in everything around you- the ocean, buildings, pastries, meals...whatever it is. And that will continue to carry you through this all.

So eloquently put - and I am sorry - it's always sad when something comes to and end. I hope you don't feel too sad...time to move on. Lou x

You have the most positive attitude about everything. xoxo

So sorry to hear about this Olivia. I know everyone already said this, but you seem like such a kind and graceful person, and you continue to exude those qualities in this post. xox

aw, I'm so sorry to hear about the breakup, you have the most positive outlook and I know you'll be just fine.

Beautiful! I took some pictures of the lovely sky at sunset near Santa Monica a couple days ago...looked very similar, and oh so pretty!

Liesl :)

Olivia,

One of the things I admire most about this blog is your honesty. The way you take joy in simple pleasures, family and really life itself is beautiful. You have a great outlook!!! Sending you much love!! And during hard times it is always so enlightening how one can find amazing support from amazing people ... family!! XO

Sending you a hug + hearty laugh. Your optimistic attitude is so refreshing. Just remember, it's okay to feel sad and eat lots of brownies. xo

Ah lady. I'll be thinking of you this weekend. Luckily, hearts heal. And knowing you, whatever is next is bright and wonderful.

Oh my gosh! I am so so sorry to hear about this. You are so incredibly inspiring. Your attitude towards the situation is amazing. You are right - you do have incredible people in your life and a million blogger friends who are here to help you along the way :)
xx

what an appropriate title for this post.. love the pics as always.. and your simple way of saying things. i'm glad that you are fine and keeping your fabulous positive attitude.. you will flourish, this will pass. sending internet-hugs your way.

oh my goodness, my heart just dropped! I'm so sorry to hear this news. You are SO SO lovely. xo

i'm terribly sorry to hear that! but you seem very resilient and i'm sure you will be more than fine in time. i wish you the best.

Oh gorgeous girl... My beau of four years and I just broke up... We just packed up our home and went our separate ways and I moved into my own house and for the first time am living alone.. It's only been about a month, but it's proving to be such a wonderful time... sending loads of love to you and don't hesitate to reach out ever
xo tash

BIG HUG!

you are so lovely and strong. i admire you in so many ways, especially your honesty and your classiness. we are all thinking of you and supporting you.

I'm sorry to hear that, Olivia. But your strength and grace are such an inspiration. I know you will be more than fine! Have a good, relaxing weekend dear!

Oh Olivia,I'm so sorry. You definitely have the right attitude though, and I'm glad you guys will remain friends. Hang in there!

Oh, and your pictures are beautiful. Truly

wow. that came as a surprise! for a minute when you said things didn't go as planned i thought, maybe....then i was like...no way! i am so sorry dear beautiful girl. i hardly know what to say, except i hope you move out to california, have the time of your life, and encounter crazy adventures around every corner. (jk you don't HAVE to move to cali, you'll have adventures anywhere ;)) i know you are going to be more than fine; you're going to be wonderful just like always. i would love to hear the story sometime if you ever need a "listener." you are a ray of light in the world and are surrounded by love. i hope that everything is okay.

You seem to be handling the breakup so well! I'm sorry to hear about it but you have a great attitude and that will help you a lot. Take care!

i admire your openness and honesty olivia. i can only imagine how hard this must be from you -- it is go good to hear you are keeping your head up. you have so much life to look forward to!

I'm so sorry to hear that Olivia. I also did sense that was the case, when I didn't see any photos of Tyler. You are a strong,loving, beautiful, intelligent & creative woman and speaking from a lifetime of experience - you will have people come & go from your life, but they will always remain in your heart. Warm hugs and much love sent your way! xxoo :)

I'm so sorry, but I admire your positive outlook, that can be such a rare quality.

I'm so sorry Olivia! Know that many readers out there are praying and thinking of you. You are such a beautiful person inside and out, and remember you will be a stronger person after facing tough trials.

This might sound corny as we've never met, but I'm sure I speak for many people when I say that you are such a wonderful example of a sweet, strong, and optimistic person.

I hope you go out and have fun with your girlfriends, bake and eat something rich and delicious, and know that we're thinking of you!

Much love xoxo

When something that meant so much to you comes to an end it is so painful but hopefully the love from your friends and family will ease the pain one day at a time. Tyler was in your life for a reason to teach you certain things about yourself and you are now ready (in time) to explore the next step in your life, it will in no doubt be great. hang in there! x

oh man.
i am going through a break up and they all suck but it WILL be okay. that's a fact.

Olivia, I'm sending hugs your way. I admire your strength and honesty so much.
xox,
Linnea

xoxo.

p.s. beautiful photos!

I am so sorry to hear that. It takes courage to say it out loud.
The pictures are just beautiful.

Oh please don't say that!!!!! I like live through your life and your happiness helps get me through my mundane life. I don't understand?!?!?! What happened there's not way this is forever, no way.

You're handling this is such an awesome way. You still have a content attitude and I have always admired that about you.
Hang in there!

P.S. The trees in the top pictures look like Dr. Seuss, too!
Beautiful, beautiful photos.

i'm so sorry to hear about your break-up, dear... your attitude is so positive - it's admirable. keep your chin up. <3

you look absolutely gorgeous in that photo!

Sorry to hear that, hope you are taking some time for yourself!

I have to echo what everyone else said: you handle things with such grace and class. Also, someone else said about the holidays coming up equalling lots of friend and family time, which is a lovely bonus. Thinking of you, hope things aren't too rough. x

Oh Olivia. I'm so sorry to hear that. You are so strong to share this with everyone. You seem like such an amazing person and as hard as it may be to see past it all.. things will get better. For now though I suggest, lots of cooking (the chocolatey the better), hanging with your cute-as-pie family and way too many trips to the beach. Sending a bunch of smiles across the sea x

i'm one of those silent reads-but-never-comments readers, but i'm so sorry to hear about the break up! i have to say, though, that you chose the perfect title for this post. and in those crappy post-breakup moments, i recommend lots of natasha bedingfield dance parties (cheesy, but "unwritten" is the perfect song for situations like this!). keep your chin up!

I'm a blog-reader, but it's the mom in me responding. My heart aches for both of you. It will take time, but great joy and new adventures are just around the corner each and every day. And no one is better at finding them than you; of that I am sure!

i am so sorry! i don't have very good words for this. but i feel for you. and i think you are amazing, beautiful, incredibly talented.

xoxo
k

Not sure if you'll ever read this, but you actually look really happy, content, and at peace in the second picture. Must be something about that California air. It goes well with you.

sending you hugs, positive vibes and peace.

So eloquently put, lovely. I know it must be hard, but you have a tremendous attitude about it all! And you are going to be fine! You are a ridiculously talented, gorgeous and sweet lady!! Cheers to new adventures!

What? I'm so surprised, like I know you guys are something. But if you're feeling positive, I'm with you and wish you continued happiness. Although breaking up is never fun.

Did you not live in a treehouse for this boy? Ugh, boys are dumb. He will never find someone as wonderful as you.
You sound pretty strong, but I'm sure your heart aches a little.
Thanks for sharing your lovely pictures and thoughts. xoxo

Olivia!
You are such a strong girl and so inspiring! To see how positive you are about this, it seriously makes you such an amazing person! I love that you are so optimistic about things and that you know that you have great people in your life to lean on. :)

It's sad news, but I am so delighted to see how many people are leaving positive comments for you. Even in the darkest times you are loved - all across the world!

So sorry to hear it. Sending you a big warm love from Australia. Mx

Simple and elegant, Olivia! Sending you happy thoughts.

Olivia! I am so sorry to hear about the breakup! You are so strong and so much to look forward to in your life :) keep finding joy in everyday!

well you're incredibly cool, so I am certain anything you do will work out wonderfully.

also - maybe jewelry is a good thing? Giving away a necklace on my site - www.chelsea-gwynne.com


all the best,

CG

Sending you good vibes~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~, kisses and virtual hugs from small European country, Croatia!
You are such gorgeous, classy girl- very soon you are going to be more than fine!xxx, Ivana

dearest olivia, i think you deserve a big batch of caramel sea salt brownies. glad to hear that you're doing well + pulling through this. i think you are rather amazing. xoxo

Oh sweet girl... I hope you're okay with this decision and know that you'll be just fine. Stay strong! xoxo

Olivia,

What a graceful and classy lady you are! As someone who also experienced a break up under similar circumstances about a year and a half ago (22 years old at the time, together for three years, broke up after he took a two month trip), I understand how you must be feeling. Of course I don't know your circumstances, but please know that I am thinking of you and wishing you lots of happy moments with those that love you. Trust that life does indeed go on and that in time, it may even be ten times more beautiful than it was before. Sending a big virtual hug your way, my friend!

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news. If his trip had anything to do with it, I kind of understand. My boyfriend and I broke up after I studied abroad for a semester. We realized that we were going in different directions and that it wasnt going to work anymore. Which isnt to say that it was easy! But you seem to have a great outlook and armed with your class and elegance, I'm sure you'll up and running in no time! Sending happy thoughts and good wishes your way!

-Samantha
http://sincerelysamantha.com

i'm so sorry to hear about you & tyler. my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years broke up with me in may & i have been struggling ever since... i am finally now starting to feel at peace about it. i know we don't know each other, but i will be thinking about you & sending you good vibes! if you need anything, you can always email me. sometimes it makes me feel better to hear another person's perspective. :)

xo
heather
heparrish@gmail.com

My heart broke a little bit reading those words, but I know that you will be fine, just as you said. Sending love to you today.

We all know how this feels and it's NOT easy. But you get two thumbs up and a boatload of positive thoughts from me for your amazing attitude towards life. That's how it's done!

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear that. I haven't been reading your blog for a long while, but when you said things didn't go as planned I hoped that that wasn't it!

I wish you the best and am thinking about you.

I'm so sorry to hear this! Take care of yourself, surround yourself with family and friends, do the things that you love to do and that bring you comfort. XO, Marsi

oh olivia i'm so so sorry. i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago and it's hard. but having such amazing friends and family surround me is amazing and makes things so much easier. i know you are surrounded by so many people who love you and are there for you.

I'm so sorry to hear this, but I must echo everyone else's sentiments- you are beautiful, young, and full of grace and class- this is only a stepping stone to bigger and better things.

un petit coucou de france ! cheer up ;-)

sorry to hear about this, but you are always so strong, beautiful and graceful! i really admire you and hope you keep your chin up like you always do.

Dearest Olivia, take all the time you need, indulge yourself and take care! You are the greatest!

XO Mandy

hugs and kisses.

I'm so sorry to hear about your breakup, just by reading your blog over the past year, I know how much he meant to you.

I love the positive & mature attitude you have about it...that shows what a strong woman you are.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years just a day after this. Hope you're feeling ok <3

:-) At the end it all works out for the best. Huge Hugs!